My frustration with dating profiles and first messages has led me to desire to want to tell others how awful they're profiles really are. Even more than that, I want to help people improve their chances on these sites, so if you feel you need some help, send me a message with the answers to following questions. For a while, I will do so for free in trade for testimonials and eventually I hope to construct my own website and do this for a fee, so you should enjoy the freebie benefits while you can.
An attractive dating profile contains a good bit of information about the basics of your personality including your wants, likes, and dislikes. The more details you put into it, the more obvious your efforts appear. This translates into how much effort you’re willing to put into a relationship, into sex, into dates, and even your own appearance. It also opens up more opportunities for conversation starters. If a girl reads a generic profile, it’s much harder to come up with a question or comment than if you’ve said some things she can relate to on a more personal level. So, to help get those details into your profile, please answer the following questions as thoroughly and honestly* as possible or explain why the question isn’t one you can answer. If there are any for which you don’t understand the reasoning behind their inclusion on the questionnaire, please feel free to ask. (* Really give some thought to these. Don’t answer in a way that you feel would make you more attractive because ultimately portraying yourself as someone you aren’t will just ruin your chances)
1. What age range are you most comfortable with in a partner?
2. What are your outlier ages (the absolute youngest and oldest)?
3. Are you looking for casual dating, a fling, friends with benefits, or something more long term?
4. What are your spiritual/religious beliefs? How important are these beliefs to you? Is it necessary to date someone who shares these beliefs?
5. How close is your family and how important is it that the person you’re dating spend a lot of time with you and your family?
6. Why did your most recent relationship end?
7. Which is more true of successful relationships (a) opposites attract (b) it’s better
to have a lot of common ground to build on
8. Do you fall in love easily?
9. Do you like to see or talk to the person you’re dating every single day, at least most days, or do you prefer to have a lot of space?
10. What does your ideal sexual encounter consist of? Do you agree that sexual chemistry is a necessity for successful relationships?
11. Are you attracted (mainly) to a particular type?
12. You have plans with friends. The person you’re seeing gets pretty sick just before you’re supposed to leave. There is no way he/she could be faking—he/she has a 103 degree fever, chills, body aches and is vomiting. He/she will probably be in bed all day. Do you go ahead with your plans or do you stay home?
13. What are 3 words that describe you?
14. What are you currently doing with your life and what are your future goals?
15. Who influenced you the most as a child?
16. Fill in the blank: Money is ______.
17. Are you introverted or extraverted?
18. Are you a procrastinator?
19. What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done to another person?
20. Are there such a thing as women’s jobs and men’s jobs (even around the house
in relation to chores)?
21. Race and ethnicity are ____.
22. What are your hobbies?
23. Do you follow current events? Are you the kind of person who likes discussing politics or current events with others?
24. Are you a reader? If so, what’s the latest good book you’ve read? What books would you recommend to someone else from your lifelong reading list?
25. What’s your favorite meal? Would you rather make it and enjoy the reward or have someone else make it from you so you can enjoy their gift?
26. Do you prefer a large group of friends or a close-knit group of few?
27. It’s Friday night. You’re off all weekend long and you’re single. What is your ideal way to spend the evening? The whole weekend? How does that change if you’re involved with someone?
28. What are your favorite movies? Why those? What about television shows?
29. You’ve had a terrible day. What music do you play? Why?
30. A movie is being made about your life. What are some songs that would be on the soundtrack? Why?
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